Even after The Graduate made him a superstar, he always saw himself as a 'funny looking semitic guy' on the fringes of fame. Five decades on he talks about racism and the movies, how Tootsie made him a feminist and why he wishes he was Jack NicholsonLast Sunday evening, Dustin Hoffman wasn't at the Oscars but watching the New York Knicks play Miami Heat at basketball. His friend Spike Lee happened to be there too, po…